Friday, January 27, 2017
The ideal scenarios that I lost with time
Just wanna share some thoughts.
I'm trying to come to terms with the fact that timing may not always be right for everything, and sometimes we just can't have the best of both worlds. Due to several reasons, I've started to wonder if the wedding could have been better if it happened during a different period of my life.
I find it important to fulfill all elements of my dream wedding, because it's something that's "once in a life time". In this case, the chance to "do better next time" doesn't apply. It's not like a birthday party where you can hold a more spectacular one the next year, or home reno where you can always "upgrade" next time.
But life doesn't always work out the way you want it and most of the things I want cannot be bought with money. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't and I can't do anything about it.
It's all about timing and perhaps, I've missed the golden peak of my life.